In plain language
A teenager checks Instagram fifteen times in an hour, mood rising and falling with the like count. An employee logs 70-hour weeks chasing a job title while sleep and relationships erode. Different arenas, same loop: symbolic payoffs such as likes, purchases, status, being right, and feeling important begin to dominate behavior and crowd out what truly matters. Wisdom traditions across Buddhism, Taoism, Christianity, Sikhism, and Islam have long warned about this kind of clinging, but psychology has lacked a comprehensive behavioral account of it. This paper fills that gap.
The authors call the harmful pattern experiential attachment: organizing action around socially and culturally created symbolic rewards (praise, control, status, self-image) in ways that feel urgent but override sensitivity to real circumstances. They propose a functional definition of its healthy counterpart, nonattachment: noticing the pull of those symbolic rewards without automatically acting on them, and re-orienting attention to the present moment and values-based action. Using Relational Frame Theory and the Extended Evolutionary Meta-Model, they review and organize the diverse scientific findings on nonattachment and its functions.
The review finds that nonattachment is linked to well-being, pain tolerance, openness, and prosociality, and that it can be cultivated through interventions spanning attention, cognition, emotion, self, and social processes. Importantly, the authors argue that it is rigidity, not symbolism itself, that creates suffering: symbols like team jerseys or trophies can deepen meaning, and symbolic commitments can even sustain people through extreme hardship. Attachment becomes costly when the symbol matters more than what it represents and behavior no longer adjusts as contexts change.
Key findings
- Proposes the first comprehensive behavioral definition of nonattachment: noticing the pull of symbolic rewards (e.g., praise, control, status, self-image) without automatically acting on them, and re-orienting to present circumstances and values-based action.
- Introduces the concept of experiential attachment, in which the pursuit of positive symbolic experiences disproportionately guides behavior and overrides sensitivity to other contingencies.
- Reviewed evidence links nonattachment to greater well-being, pain tolerance, openness, and prosociality.
- Rigidity, not symbolism, creates suffering: symbolic commitments can be adaptive in contexts of extreme hardship, and shared symbols can deepen meaning when they stay connected to what they represent.
- Interventions such as Meditation Awareness Training, humility training, and values affirmation show promise for increasing nonattachment; in one randomized trial, nonattachment to self fully mediated reductions in fibromyalgia symptoms.
- Identifies intervention targets across biological, psychological, interpersonal, and cultural levels, while noting that most existing programs are multicomponent, making it hard to isolate active ingredients.
How to cite
APA
Ciarrochi, J., Hayes, S. C., File, D., Brown, K. W., Yap, K., Fraser, M. I., Hernandez, C., Hill, D., Hayes, L., Ong, C. W., & Sahdra, B. (2025). From experiential attachment to nonattachment: A theory-informed review of harmful and healthy pursuits of comfort, approval, competence, status, and control. Journal of Contextual Behavioral Science, 39, 100971. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jcbs.2025.100971
BibTeX
@article{ciarrochi2025from,
title = {From experiential attachment to nonattachment: A theory-informed review of harmful and healthy pursuits of comfort, approval, competence, status, and control},
author = {Ciarrochi, Joseph and Hayes, Steven C. and File, Domonkos and Brown, Kirk Warren and Yap, Keong and Fraser, Madeleine I. and Hernandez, Cristobal and Hill, Diana and Hayes, Louise and Ong, Clarissa W. and Sahdra, Baljinder},
journal = {Journal of Contextual Behavioral Science},
volume = {39},
pages = {100971},
year = {2025},
doi = {10.1016/j.jcbs.2025.100971}
}
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- All publications by Joseph Ciarrochi (searchable, with free PDFs)
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Author: Joseph Ciarrochi (ORCID 0000-0003-0471-8100). Free copy hosted with permission for scholarly use. Please cite the published version via the DOI above.